Sorry about the frequency and length of downtime. I have been regularly rebooting but mostly to little effect. The site seems to be behaving best from around 11am until mid-afternoon to early evening but after that it's a lottery.
I don't believe the fault is with the server host, or with the volume of traffic being too large for the capacity. Instead I suspect it's the forum software and or the database configuration that is working highly inefficiently and putting too much stress on the server capacity. But that's a guess only, and there's nothing I can do about it. I just have to keep on booting and hoping.
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