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  • janem
    Pushing for Selection
    • Oct 2006
    • 81

    Is it appropriate?

    I?m glad, amazed but at the same time not surprised, considering his character, that McVeigh is in the team
    for this coming weekend.

    Is it appropriate for us in the crowd to wear black arm bands to show our support for Jarrad, Clementine and
    their families?

    I have only ever seen arm bands worn by teams of some sort.

    I like most others, can?t imagine what they are all going through at the moment but I think it would be great if, on mass on Saturday, we can at least show them that we are in some tiny way riding this wave with them.

    Any thoughts?
  • SimonH
    Salt future's rising
    • Aug 2004
    • 1647

    #2
    Sometimes the simplest explanations are the best ones. I reckon Jarrad's fronting up to play footy, because he really wants to play footy. If Jarrad/the club wanted any external commemoration thing on gameday, then I'm sure the Swans would let us know. I expect that just an extra-loud cheer for every McVeigh touch, will do the job.

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    • Cpt. Kirk
      Warming the Bench
      • Feb 2011
      • 351

      #3
      I think its a great idea, show that not only the club but also the supporters are thinking about him and his family.

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      • Bas
        Veterans List
        • Jan 2003
        • 4457

        #4
        Originally posted by SimonH
        Sometimes the simplest explanations are the best ones. I reckon Jarrad's fronting up to play footy, because he really wants to play footy. If Jarrad/the club wanted any external commemoration thing on gameday, then I'm sure the Swans would let us know. I expect that just an extra-loud cheer for every McVeigh touch, will do the job.
        +1
        In memory of my little Staffy - Dicey, 17.06.2005 to 1.12.2011- I'll miss you mate.

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        • BSA5
          Senior Player
          • Feb 2008
          • 2522

          #5
          Arm bands are generally just for players. I wouldn't say it's so much inappropriate as just a bit of a visual non sequitur. It wouldn't be inappropriate perhaps to wear/do something as a commemoration, but I wouldn't make it big (e.g. a banner) as I'm sure McVeigh wants to put it all out of his mind for a couple of hours.
          Officially on the Reid and Sumner bandwagon!

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          • Triple B
            Formerly 'BBB'
            • Feb 2003
            • 6999

            #6
            Originally posted by Bas
            +1
            +2
            Driver of the Dan Hannebery bandwagon....all aboard. 4th April 09

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            • RogueSwan
              McVeigh for Brownlow
              • Apr 2003
              • 4602

              #7
              Originally posted by janem
              Is it appropriate?
              None of our business really.
              "Fortunately, this is the internet, so knowing nothing is no obstacle to having an opinion!." Beerman 18-07-2017

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              • janem
                Pushing for Selection
                • Oct 2006
                • 81

                #8
                I also don't think Jarrad will be thinking of, or care much, about anything but his family and playing for quite a while. I just thought a silent
                show of support (heaven forbid I couldn't think of anything worse than making a banner) may be good for him to look back on one day and think how so many people that he doesn't even know cared about what has happened.
                All points taken thanks. I will just send extra strong vibes and hope he "feels the love" of the SCG crowd tomorrow.

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                • Go Swannies
                  Veterans List
                  • Sep 2003
                  • 5697

                  #9
                  Bit torn on the armband but would lean towards "no". However, I think we need to make a lot of noise when his name is read out so he knows (or learns later) how much he's appreciated.

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                  • Damien
                    Living in 2005
                    • Jan 2003
                    • 3713

                    #10
                    Not a fan of the armbands for the crowds, he'll know how we feel everytime he touches the ball I reckon.

                    So excited to see him back, I'm sure having football will help him in surviving the very long term grief him and Clementine would be going through and the ups and downs associated with that.

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                    • Damien
                      Living in 2005
                      • Jan 2003
                      • 3713

                      #11
                      Originally posted by BSA5
                      Arm bands are generally just for players. I wouldn't say it's so much inappropriate as just a bit of a visual non sequitur. It wouldn't be inappropriate perhaps to wear/do something as a commemoration, but I wouldn't make it big (e.g. a banner) as I'm sure McVeigh wants to put it all out of his mind for a couple of hours.
                      I'm not banner maker or taker (?) haha but I think an appropriate banner showing support or solidarity would be seen as a lovely gesture. The actual team banner last week about Bloods sticking together, that type of thing. I don't think anyone would like to see RIP signs around the ground or anything confronting through of course, so I agree there.

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                      • Hartijon
                        On the Rookie List
                        • May 2008
                        • 1536

                        #12
                        A lovely kind gesture and thought and I don't mean to sound negative but I feel Macca would want to forget his personal sorrow for 2 hours while he plays. I just worry seeing that kind of support may cause him to think about other things besides the game and cause him to break down.I know it would affect me that way.

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                        • Doctor
                          Bay 29
                          • Sep 2003
                          • 2757

                          #13
                          Yes it is.
                          Today's a draft of your epitaph

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                          • Primmy
                            Proud Tragic Swan
                            • Apr 2008
                            • 5970

                            #14
                            I don't know. Really. I mean Sunday is Father's Day. I think it may all be a bit too much if we as footy/swans fans buy into it. We are NOT his immediate family. We are the family of Swans. Luella has been fairwelled by her own family and Macca wants to play this week. I think a bit of breathing space is in order here.
                            If you've never jumped from one couch to the other to save yourself from lava then you didn't have a childhood

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                            • Wardy
                              The old Boiler!
                              • Sep 2003
                              • 6676

                              #15
                              Its none of our business - its his call, and his wish - end of story.
                              I used to be indecisive, but now I'm not so sure..................
                              Chickens drink - but they don't pee!
                              AGE IS ONLY IMPORTANT FOR TWO THINGS - WINE & CHEESE!

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